Ostomy & dating

When it comes to dating, having an ostomy can be a potential source of anxiety. The thought of disclosing such a personal and sensitive issue to someone you are just getting to know can be daunting, and many people with an ostomy wonder if they will ever find love. The good news is that there are many people out there who have an ostomy who are in happy and healthy relationships.

It is important to remember that an ostomy is only a small part of who you are. Everyone has something they consider to be an insecurity, and an ostomy is no different. As long as youre sure of yourself and your worth, you will attract the right kind of person into your life.

When it comes to disclosing your ostomy to someone youre dating, it is ultimately up to you when you feel comfortable enough to do so. It may be helpful to start out by talking about disability and chronic illness in general, so that the other person is aware that it is something you are comfortable discussing. Be sure to let the other person know that you are comfortable with your ostomy and do not need their pity or sympathy.

It is also important to remember that even if someone does not accept your ostomy, there is nothing wrong with you. Everyone has different preferences and some people may not be ready for a relationship with someone who has an ostomy. That is okay, and it is important to remember that you are in control of your own happiness and have the right to set boundaries in relationships.

Ultimately, having an ostomy should not stop anyone from finding love. There are many people out there who have had successful relationships while having an ostomy, and it is entirely possible to find someone who accepts you for who you are.